
Are we competitive by nature? Or is it a value inculcated in our way of life? Your experience may produce some doubt, yet the basis of our nature is cooperation. It’s in our DNA. Empathy is strong in our collective humanity. You observe it every time there’s a natural disaster or horrific destruction. Of course, there are sociopaths in society, but this is not the norm. We are wired to have a sense of community and a compassionate response to another person’s anguish.
As trite as it may sound, what we do on an individual level effects the global environment. We live in a participatory world. We are all connected. The reality is that what happens on another continent does impact us. There is consequence to people starving, to genocide. We normally don’t see the connection until the outcome impacts us economically. Yet, for the most part, our better nature does rise to the top. A TIbetan Buddhist nun, Pema Chodron said, “fear is a natural reaction to moving closer to the truth.” There are many examples of courageous individuals who have embraced their fear to stand up for their truth and they have impacted our world immeasurably. When one becomes fully conscious of one’s true nature, there is no other choice.
New Perspective:
When you change your perception, the world changes.
Nothing in nature takes more than it needs.
When surrounded by negativity, love is a powerful force.
What’s right with the world is that more often than not, we do remember our true nature, cooperation is the force that brings groups together, empathy is a healing influence and embracing fear does bring us closer to the truth.
March 27, 2015 at 3:16 pm
Hi Flo
Nice to see your blog again. It’s been a while and I was concerned.
About this post: I agree with a lot of what you say about “What’s right with the world” but not all of it, which makes sense, as follows:
One of the things I learned in college (and always remembered), was that there is no instinctual behavior in human beings. There are drives aplenty but no instinctual behavior…not even survival. To be an instinct, a behavior has to be universal among 100% of a given species and the human mind, which is certainly the most complicated thing in our universe, rolls to a different drummer. We aren’t one mode of behavior….we are all modes of behavior but to different degrees.
We are cynical and we are hopeful. We are aggressive and we are meek. We are leaders and we are followers. Etc, etc. So when you ask: “Is our essential nature one of cooperation or domination?”, I would answer, “Yes.” The same when you ask: “Are we competitive or cooperative?”, again I would answer, “Yes”.
Cooperation and empathy are among the many forms of human behavior that have gotten us this far. But then so are competition and dominance. (Darwin et al.) There’s a lot right with the world…..and a lot that’s wrong. It ain’t easy being human. And it ain’t easy trying to figure it out, either.
Nice to hear from you again.
Herb Goldman
Hollywood, FL